Indulging
Dreams
Every
school child, every adolescent, has heard some teacher tell somebody,
or maybe the whole class, to Stop That Daydreaming! So you swing back
to the realities of school work. Eyes scanning the pages of the assigned
text, or fingers feeding numbers into a calculator, or ears alert to the
voice thatÍs explaining what youÍre supposed to be learning. But pretty
soon you feel yourself slipping away again. Into the marvelous possibilities
of wishful thinking. LikeÜ Winning and holding the affections of the person
youÍd like to be with at that very moment. Testing your strength or proving
yourself on the playing field. Walking, alone or with a friend, though
a wooded ravine. Checking out the latest fashions at the newest shopping
mall. Holed up in your room at home, enjoying the lonely pleasure of your
own company. All worthy pastimes, no doubt. But they become unworthy distractions
if you let idle wishing interrupt, or take over, when thereÍs a mental
task to complete. And if that kind of daydreaming becomes a habit, the
growth of your mind will be stunted, never reaching the level of development
youÍre capable of attaining.
But there
are other timesÜappropriate timesÜfor daydreaming. Times for letting your
imagination take off. Times for leaving classrooms and all other mundane
places behind to enter worlds of fantasy. Romantic ideal worlds. Utopias
of unspoiled natural beauty. Where people live in peace. Where there is
no injustice. Heroic worlds full of dangers to be overcome. Where human
frailty is replaced by superhuman power. Where you surmount every obstacle
and defeat every foe. Frightening worlds full of overpowering dangers
from which there is no escape. Absurd worlds from which human logic and
reasoning are banished. Like the unconscious world of real dreamsÜif all
that fills our heads while weÍre sleeping can be called real. Borrowing
a word a French artist created to describe his work, we say dreams are
surreal. Because theyÍre beyond the real, existing only in somebodyÍs
mind, somebodyÍs imagination, until the dreamer gives them lifeÜin words,
spoken or written, or in an objet dÍart. Whether dreaming or fantasizing,
weÍre moving through dream-like spaces, encountering the luminous or darkening
shapes of strange objects, feeling the presence of ambiguous, enigmatic
creatures.
"Please,
let me finish my dream." ThatÍs what my children used to say when I was
trying to get them out of bed for breakfast and another school day. You
can finish your dreams now. On paper. Your night-time dreams and your
daytime dreams. Let your imagination play with all the possibilities.
Though your experience of the real world may be limited, inside your own
head you can create whatever you please. And you can put your dreams and
fantasies into stories. For others to read and to enjoy.