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PARENT-TEACHER
COMMUNICATION
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Communication Across Cultures
Stella Ting-Toomey
Cultural communities
Cultures hold different value assumptions, expectations, verbal and nonverbal habits, and expectations for interactions
Conflict can be defined as the perceived or actual incompatibility of values, norms, processes, or goals between two or more cultural groups over content, identity, relational, and procedural issues
Everyday conflicts
The majority of everyday conflicts that we encounter can be traced to cultural miscommunication or ignorance
The cultural variability perspective helps explain conflict across four dimensions: individualism-collectivism; power distance; construal of self; and low or high-context communication
Individualism-collectivism values
Individualism refers to the broad value tendencies of people in a culture to emphasize the individual identity over group identity, and individual rights over group obligations. Collectivism emphasizes group identity over individual identity and in-group-oriented concerns over individual wants and desires
Expressions of individualism
Personal opinions
Display of personal emotions
Importance of personal accountability for any problem or mistake
Although all cultures display a mixture on all dimensions, several countries have high reported individualistic value tendencies
Expressions of collectivism
Representation of collective opinion or ideas
Restraint of personal emotional expressions
Protection of in-group members from being held accountable for the problem
Several groups score high on group-based cultural displays
Power distance values
In large power distance cultures, members give priority treatment and asymmetrical respect to people who are in high-status positions
In small power distance cultures, members in either high-status or low-status positions strive to foster informal, symmetrical interaction
Small power distance
Subordinates expect to be respected and valued based more on personal attributes than on their position or titles
Supervisors tend to play consultative roles more than authoritarian roles
Discrepancies in perceptions of participants affect expectations and behaviors
Construal of self values
Our self-conception within our culture influences communication with others
Individuals with a strong independent sense of self tend to see self as autonomous, self-reliant, unencumbered, and as rational choice makers
Individuals with a strong interdependent sense of self tend to see themselves as in-group bound, obligatory agents, and as harmony seekers
As expected...
While both types exist in any culture, the independent sense of self is more common in individualistic cultures, the interdependent more common in collectivistic cultures
Independent self is good at expressing thoughts and feelings; interdependent self anticipates thoughts and feelings of others
Low-context, high-context
Low-context communication emphasizes how intention or meaning can be best expressed through the explicit verbal message
High-context communication emphasizes how intention or meaning can be best expressed through the context (e.g., social roles, positions) and nonverbal channels (e.g., pauses, silence, tone of voice) of the verbal message
In general
Low context communication refers to communication patterns of direct verbal mode, straight talk, nonverbal immediacy, and sender-oriented value. The speaker of the message is expected to be responsible for constructing a clear, persuasive message that the listener can decode easily
In general...
High context communication refers to communication patterns of indirect verbal mode, ambiguous talk, nonverbal subtleties, and interpreter-sensitive value. The listener or interpreter of the message is expected to "read between the lines," to accurately infer the implicit intent of the verbal message, and observe nonverbal nuances and subtleties that encircle the verbal message
Thus .
While independent-self individualists engage in low-context styles of communication, interdependent-self collectivists engage in high-context styles of communication
Intercultural tensions
Culture-based lenses affect our perceptions and interpretations of communication through
Different conflict assumptions
Conflict rhythms
Conflict norms
Conflict styles
Ethnocentric lenses
Conflict is resolved when
Individualists: Personal opinions are voiced and acknowledged, interests are defined and clarified, each side's goals are either reached or compromised, action plans are drawn up to avoid future problems
Collectivists: Both parties help to attain mutual face saving while reaching a consensus on substantive issues between them; both sides recognize expectations and needs of others
Addressing differences
Mindful listening--understand assumptions
Mindful reframing--translate messages from the context of the other's cultural viewpoint
Face management--avoid humiliation of opponents. Give face by acknowledging concerns and obligations
Trust building--rely on the consistency of credibility, words, behaviors, actions